Scorpio Lover Traits and Relationship Tips

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A Scorpio lover embodies many of this sign's overall characteristics, including a healthy penchant towards intensity and passion. Learn what you can expect from a Scorpio partner.

Getting to Know a Scorpio Lover

Scorpio can be an intense and rather secretive sign, and these characteristics often bleed into this sign's romantic escapades. Here's what you can expect from your Scorpio lover:

Issues of Control

Scorpio likes to be in charge, and this tendency won't change just because the bedroom doors are closed. Scorpio enjoys deciding just what is going to take place when the relationship tide turns romantic, and this sign loathes appearing weak. However, don't let this dissuade you since most Scorpios secretly wish to let go of the reins once in a while. This is particularly true in their intimidate relations.

All Consuming Passion

Sex is not just a physical act for Scorpio. Instead, it's a heated and passionate exchange of energy, and it's one in which Scorpio wants to consume and be consumed. Scorpio doesn't just want to engage in a physical act; this sign wants to consume your soul, ferret out all of your secrets, and burn up in a fiery exchange of heated energy.

A Sexual Mass of Contradictions

To be sure, this is one intense astrological sign, but the irony is that Scorpios often act as if they could care less about sex. This is due to the fact that they loath to admit that they want anything in life, and this is particularly true when it comes to human contact.

In the beginning of the relationship, Scorpio will actively try to move things along quickly to the intimate level. You, on the receiving end of this attention, might feel elated that Scorpio is pursuing you so intensely. The catch is that once you are in an established relationship, Scorpio will expect you to give one hundred percent of your attention to keeping the flames of passion lit. If you give anything less, or if the intensity fades, your Scorpio lover will become completed disinterested in being intimate with you. Make no mistake about it, he will find that intensity somewhere else.

Keeping Scorpio Happy

If you love a Scorpio, you may be curious to know how to keep yours happy. These tips should help:

  • Share your secrets: Scorpio loves finding out hidden tidbits of information about others, so sharing your secrets will help to foster a sense of intimacy.
  • Share your feelings: Along with secrets, be sure to share your feelings as well. Scorpio feels right at home when it comes to intense emotions.
  • Keep an air of mystery: Scorpio likes nothing better than solving a puzzle, so if you keep an air of mystery around yourself, your partner is sure to find you fascinating.
  • Approach with passion: Above all things, keep the intimate fires of your relationship burning and let your Scorpio know just how much you care. Underneath that cool exterior, a Scorpio secretly delights in being loved.

Making It Work

Scorpio does tend to get along better with water signs like Cancer and Pisces, but that doesn't mean that this sign can't pair well with others. As long as the relationship is filled with honesty, integrity and passion, Scorpio will be happy. Additionally, when things get a bit intense, don't be afraid to try a bit of humor. Scorpio may be a rather serious sign, but that doesn't mean that he can't laugh at himself. Engaging the different aspects of your Scorpio lover's personality will go a long way in keeping both of you happy.

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