Can a mutable fire Sagittarius male and a cardinal fire Aries female be good friends? There is a lot more to an individual's chart than just the Sun sign, and if there are incompatible elements between them, then that will alter the dynamic. Assuming that all other factors are compatible however, this fiery duo can become fast friends.
Friendship Comes Naturally to an Aries Woman and Sagittarius Man
In the 1989 movie When Harry Met Sally, Harry declares that men and women cannot be friends because "the sex part always gets in the way." Often this is true, but like every rule it is riddled with exceptions.
As fire signs, Aries and Sagittarius are natural friends. The fire element is companionable, daring and fun loving, and lacking the undercurrent sensitivities that plague so many of the other signs. Unless they have an emphasis on water in their charts, especially if the Moon is in a water sign, these two make easy companions, and they can tease and play tricks on one another without hard feelings. They make each other laugh a lot as they share the same juvenile sense of humor.
Humor Is Common Ground
Their fights can be spectacular, loud and dramatic but underlying even their anger is a current of humor. Unless the sex part gets in the way, this friendship will most likely have smooth sailing.
Sagittarius Is a Free Spirit
Freedom is the Sagittarius' highest value. He loves to talk, explore new environments, and is constantly on the lookout for fresh adventures and interesting people. There is always room in his life for another friend, and he is open to most types. As long as you enjoy expansive horizons, sweeping ideas, and flights of fancy, he is easy to get along with. This guy has no problem being friends with a girl; in fact, many in his circle are probably female. The sign on his front door says 'welcome.' Like all fire signs he has a temper, but it flares swiftly and is as quickly over. He takes nothing seriously and he can let go as fast as he erupts.
Aries Is Feisty
An Aries woman can hold her own with any man, and she is the first to say so. She sees herself as 'one of the guys,' gravitating to friendships with men. This prickly, competitive girl carries an outsize chip on her shoulder. "Anything you can do, I can do better," she declares to men, and she can, too. Unless her early life has beaten her down, the Aries woman is certain of her right to exist and suffers no inferiority complex about her gender. She may be smaller, but she is also quicker and smarter, she believes. Swift to accept a challenge, she makes an exciting companion to a Sagittarian man. She will fight with her friends because Aries has a very short fuse, but she is also quick to forgive and forget, and she holds no grudges.
Fire Signs Are Hot
So what's the problem? Both Aries and Sagittarius are impulsive types, especially with regard to intimate relations. Fire is inspiration and motivation, yes, and it is desire too, the spontaneous sort which propels you helter skelter into new unplanned experiences. They would not necessarily be sparked into a sexual attraction but if they are, it is very hard for either of them to hold back.
They Lack Impulse Control
Fire is meant to burn bright and live free! Any fire sign would rather apologize than ask permission. Their primary priority is the moment, and they lack impulse control. Most fire sign folks are childlike in their simplicity. Complicated concepts like 'probable consequences of one's choices' don't occur to them until the aftermath forces them to realise what they have done. When it comes to a friendship between two fire signs that heat speaks to sexual sparks as well as temper.
Boundaries May Be a Challenge
If they are both unattached, this is not a problem as they also make compatible mates. However, if either of them are in relationships with others, boundaries could be a challenge to maintain. In that case, it is best for these two hotties to keep their friendship on a casual level and avoid intimate situations that permit the friendship to deepen and inconvenient sparks to fly.
Friendship and Maybe More Between the Archer and the Ram
An Aries woman and a Sagittarius man share a natural affinity. They like each other fine, and as long as they are unattached, there is no limit to how close they can be. They are excellent friends. If one or both is limited by relationship boundaries, their free spirits may take it as a challenge. Within limits, a fun and fulfilling friendship can still thrive. Whichever it is, there is no denying that the sex part exists when two fire signs are involved.