Variety is the spice of life for a Gemini and they're extremely restless, both physically and intellectually. They are the friendly social butterflies of the zodiac who always have a diversity of acquaintances. However, when it comes to a friendship they're more selective, and when it comes to a romance, they can behave like a teenager in love.
As a Friend
Easy breezy Gemini is always happy to meet people from all walks of life. So, meeting a Gemini is seldom a problem. However, keep in mind that they'll have to find you interesting, unique, fun, and intellectually stimulating to be their friend.
Signs a Gemini Man or Woman likes you:
- They'll make time for you.
- They'll spend a great deal of time talking, texting or actively engaging you in interesting conversations.
- They'll compliment your intelligence and your attitude toward life, as well as listen to your opinions and ideas.
If you're interested in something more than friendship with a Gemini, keep in mind that everyone a Gemini dates starts out as their friend.
As More Than a Friend
Geminis play the field and are often fickle, flirty, unpredictable, and capricious when it comes to relationships. However, if a Gemini wants to be more than just a friend, they'll:
- Get giddy and nervous, perhaps even tease, flirt, and act a little silly.
- Want to do fun and exciting things and be with you as often as possible.
- Do everything in their power to be fun, sexy and fabulous.
- Get touchy-feely, physically intimate, and want to snuggle, hug and kiss you every time they see you.
If a Gemini gives you all of their attention even when there's a room full of exciting people, you can bet they're interested in taking the hugs and kisses to the next level.
If a Gemini Loves You
You're dating, you're sexually intimate, and you've fallen in love with a Gemini, now, how can you tell if they've fallen in love with you and want a deeper commitment?
Gemini expresses love most easily through verbal communication and body language. They're not naturally comfortable with the vulnerability of emotional intimacy. So, if a Gemini trusts you enough to open up and talk to you about their troubles, problems, worries, doubts, fears, and deep desires, as well as shares their innermost thoughts with you and wants to know yours, it's defiantly a sign that you're very, very special to them.
Male and Female Gemini
Gemini is the masculine Mutable Air sign of the zodiac which indicates that Geminis of both genders can be mentally and emotionally androgynous. This makes it difficult to generalize their differences. However, in most cases:
- Gemini men tend to be more reflective and serious, but with a playful and fun demeanor. An excellent example of this is Gemini actor Johnny Depp.
- Gemini women tend to be more emotional, moody, and sometimes seem a bit ditsy. In the words of Linda Goodman: "Some Gemini women are as pathetically wistful and lost as (Gemini) Judy Garland, following a rainbow that forever seems to elude them."
Shades of Gemini
There are different shades of Gemini. Everyone with a Gemini Sun has other placements in their horoscope that can either accentuate or mitigate typical Gemini behavior. However, if a Gemini says the words "I Love you," don't doubt that they mean it. Just understand that the love can be just for the moment, the week, the month, or forever.