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How to Attract a Virgo Woman in Practical Ways

Patricia Lantz C.Ht.
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A Virgo woman is a hard-working, quiet, reserved, modest and gentle lady, who has her eye out for a quality person who's not interested in one-night stands. She's also a picky, practical and very observant person who pays attention to detail. So, if you want to attract a Virgo woman, be on your best behavior and tread lightly.

How to Attract a Virgo Woman

Of course, a Virgo woman is defiantly more compatible with a person who shares many of her same qualities in their astrological makeup. Still, anyone can have an easier time attracting this common-sense woman if they understand the type of individuals she finds attractive. But if these attraction techniques don't come naturally, it's debatable if the person could pull off attracting a woman who is an eagled eyed observer and perfectionist.

Be Well Groomed and Smile

A Virgo woman has perfectionist tendencies and is attracted to people who are neat, clean, and well-groomed. When you first meet, look her in the eyes, introduce yourself, and smile. Ask her if you can call her. A few words and a smile are so simple and easy, but they can show genuine interest.

Strike Up a Conversation

Be self-confident, kind, and conversational, but never pushy. Remember what she says so you can work it into future conversations. Show her that you have your life together, build rapport, trust, and respect. Build a friendship that has the promise of love.

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Speak Intelligently

For a Virgo woman, it's not so much what you say, but how you say it, that's important. So, focus on her, use both the spoken word and body language, and pause to give her time to speak. Don't use clichés or slang, and know what you're talking about. A Virgo woman is mercurial, and this means you'll have to win her mind before you can win her heart.

Be a Gentleman

Show your good manners and social skills. She's an old-fashioned lady who doesn't mind being courted. If you ask her out, have the date planned. Then be punctual, bring her flowers, and take her to a nice restaurant. If all goes well, end the evening at a dessert bar or coffee shop and show your conversational skills. Then get her home safely abd don't push for sex. Follow up with a call the next to and tell her you enjoyed her company.

Plan Future Dates With Her in Mind

A Virgo woman is often a workaholic and happiest if her life is planned and arranged, which means she's not much on surprises. So, make sure you plan ahead so she can pencil you in on her calendar. Also, keep in mind when planning your dates that she's also picky about what she eats and very sensitive to her environment. She can't bear dirty, busy, loud, or crowded places.

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Treat Her With Respect

Show your inner strength and integrity by always being polite, treating her with respect in every situation, and never, never become pushy or overbearing.

Prepare to Be Criticized

Due to a Virgo woman's need for perfection and her critical complex nature, you can expect to be criticized. It's best to remember that she's not actually putting you down because, in her mind, she's merely helping you become a better person. If you have a problem with constructive criticism, there's going to be trouble.

Be Pet-Friendly

A Virgo woman feels at home in the company of animals. This means she probably lives with one or two or more and treats them all as if they were her children. If you have pets, make sure to talk about them, bring them around to meet her, and show them off. Being an animal lover is sure to attract her. However, if you're not pet-friendly, you're probably wasting your time trying to attract a Virgo woman.

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Give Her Some Space and Be Patient

A Virgo woman is critical, cautious, is looking for a lifelong partner. She wants to go slowly when it comes to romance and her first instinct is to run away from romantic feelings. So, give her some time and space and don't push the issue. She has her life well-ordered and becoming romantically involved with someone who can't fit easily into her life could upset her apple cart. When it comes to love, everything is on her time schedule.

Keeping A Virgo Woman Happy

If you date a Virgo woman, it won't be long before you find out they take relationships very seriously. If you want to keep her happy, you'll need to take the relationship as seriously as she does. She expects her partner to be her helpmate and to be as loyal and trustworthy as she is. Of course, it can't hurt if you continue to do those things that attracted you to her in the first place.

Astrology's Attraction Factors: Venus and Mars

Every Virgo woman is much more than her Sun sign. She has other planets with other traits related to the astrological sign they are. If you seriously want to know what a Virgo woman likes and how to attract her, you'll need to look at astrology's primary attraction factors: The signs of her Moon, as well as Venus, the planet of love, and Mars, the planet of sex, in her birth chart.

How to Attract a Virgo Woman in Practical Ways