Aquarius Woman and Gemini Man in Bed

Patricia Lantz C.Ht.
Young Couple on a Bed

When a "let's keep things friendly and impersonal" Aquarius woman hooks up with a friendly "that's it for now, catch you later" Gemini man, you have the makings for an easy, breezy "friends with benefits" relationship. For some people, hooking up with a friend would be a big no-no. However, this is a twosome that can hit the sheets with no destination in mind.

The Aquarius Woman

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The Aquarius woman is smart, independent, and most of all, an original. Everything about her can best be described as quirky. She's unpredictable, couldn't care less what other people say about her, and won't let others' opinions change who she is. She has her own unique set of morals and standards and will not conform to anyone else's. She's a "live and let live" sort of woman whose life is about taking a step back and looking at everything from her own, sometimes wacky perspective.

Aquarius Woman Needs Freedom to Be Who She Wants

Aquarius is a fixed air sign, which means this is a woman who doesn't take kindly to anyone telling her what to do. It's important to her she has the freedom to be who she is, think what she wants, and do whatever she wants with anyone she chooses.

She's sociable and gregarious, loves meeting and mixing with others, and can be friends with anyone. However, she seldom allows people to get too close to her. As a matter of fact, she's slightly detached when it comes to emotions and feelings. Interacting with people on a messy emotional basis can annoy her to no end.

The Aquarius Woman in Bed

The Aquarius woman's bedroom behavior is as innovative, experimental, and quirky as she is. Even in bed, she likes to shock and awe and keep things impersonal. Mental stimulation is a bigger factor for her than physical stimulation. She detaches from the emotional aspect of sex, seeks novelty over passion, and often sees herself as an observer. However, she's enthusiastic, kinky, adventurous, likes to play the dominant role, and is sometimes inappropriate.

Most likely, she'll take lovers who are friends, and she prefers sexual partners that differ from the norm: race, class, age doesn't matter. She's always down for trying something or someone new. Sexually, it's almost impossible to shock her.

An Aquarius woman sees herself and her sexual partner as separate entities, both living their own lives, who sometimes meet and get intertwined and then go their separate ways again.

The Gemini Man

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A Gemini man is a multi-faceted (and sometimes androgynous) man who can be a genius with varied interests and unusual talents, or he can be someone so filled with nervousness and anxiety he gets impatient waiting for anything. Often it's a bit of both. Gemini is a mutable air sign, which means he's adaptable, flexible, can change his mind in an instant, and be or do whatever a situation requires.

The Unpredictable Gemini Man

He's audacious, experimental, exploratory, fickle, easily distracted, easily directed, unpredictable, and as capricious as the clouds. The world is like a candy store to the Gemini man, and he wants to sample every treat that catches his eye.

He's charming, witty, curious, always up for a good time, and has a wild sense of humor. He's cheerful, loves people, has a positive approach to life, and can easily make friends. Emotions don't compute, but he's open to new experiences, seeks variety, and lives in the now. Small talk is his forte, and he loves to hear and pass on the least bit of trivia, the latest piece of gossip, or the newest technique - anything that will feed his brain and keep him busy.

Gemini Men in Bed

Sex for the Gemini man is just sex, and there's little chance of him confusing it with anything else. He doesn't read anything into it and has no expectations about the future. He's not into the physical or emotional aspects of sex. It's mental and verbal stimulation that turn him on. He brings his curiosity, gift of gab, and wacky sense of humor into the bedroom. He'll tease, talk dirty, and role play.

He's a swinger, has no problems with one-night stands, and is ideally suited for a woman who's free enough to let her hair down, go a little crazy, and talk about wild and wonderful sexual things. In bed, as in life, he seeks novelty more than heavy breathing passion and wants to keep things light, friendly, fun, and impersonal.

Aquarius Woman and Gemini Man in Bed Together

The Aquarius/Gemini couple can bond over TV shows, favorite sci-fi novels, obscure philosophers, and music. They can text, tweet, email, and talk on the phone endlessly. When together, they'll laugh, exchange clever repartee, and engage in light conversation. With so much talk, you'd think they might find it hard to get around to the sex bit. However for this couple, friendly banter is foreplay and when they do make it into bed, their conversations don't end. Their sexual activity is eclectic and fun.

Few Hang Ups

They have no hang ups about their sexuality and are both open-minded, quite inventive, and up for anything and everything. Both are good communicators, and both have the same erogenous zone, the brain. Each knows how to tell their partner what turns them on in sexually explicit terms. These two can spend hours of time in sex play and dirty talk. They have no problem coming up with new and novel ways to enjoy each other sexually. However, there's usually no dreamy afterglow for this couple; neither likes to stay in bed long once the deed is done.

Sexual Compatibilities Between Gemini and Aquarius

Aquarius and Gemini are compatible air signs. They bring out each other's breezy, buoyant spirits, and that's a plus.

  • Both are sexually adventurous and a little inappropriate.
  • An open relationship appeals to both.
  • Neither is particularly romantic.
  • Both are emotionally detached and disdainful of sentimentality.
  • Neither is very good at expressing affection.
  • Both like to envision themselves as independent from romantic ties.
  • Neither is clingy.
  • Neither is predictable.

Physical sex is important to both, but it is not the most important thing. It's the mental bonding rather than the physical bonding that makes their sexual relationship work and why Aquarius and Gemini are so compatible in bed.

Friends With Benefits

Skipping the emotional entanglement of a romance? Having both the friendship and the sex together and forgoing romance, sexual exclusivity, and commitment? While this sort of relationship could raise more than a few traditional eyebrows, that's not a problem for Aquarius and Gemini, who enjoy being seen as avant garde. Plus, the raised eyebrows only serve to make their sexual relationship all the more exciting and pleasurable.

Romance and Commitment for Gemini and Aquarius

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Occasionally, a friendship with benefits relationship can produce passion, which may ignite romantic love. Yes, the Aquarius/Gemini relationship can develop into something more. However, it's likely to take time. When commitment does enter the picture, it, too, will be somewhat unorthodox.

Long-Term Relationships

There's a lot about an Aquarius/Gemini long-term relationship that pushes the boundaries of what is accepted as the norm or the status quo.

Among them are:

  • A refusal to marry
  • An unconventional sex life
  • An open-minded attitude toward infidelity

Whatever form the Aquarius/Gemini relationship takes, it can only survive with open, honest communication. However, communication shouldn't be a problem for a couple who can so easily detach from their emotions. Of course when romantic love is sparked, so are emotions. The greatest challenge for this emotionally cool couple will be handling the hot emotional ups and downs of such an open and unorthodox relationship.

The Astrological Sun and Sexuality

The astrological sun signs give some clues to a couple's habits and preferences, but the sun is not really the driving force of sexual compatibility. Sun signs are important because they show how each lights up and energizes the other's life. However, sun sign synastry only reveals a couple's general sexual compatibility. You'll have to check into the complete horoscope chart of each to get the full picture of a couple's sexual compatibility.

Predictably Unpredictable

Both Aquarius and Gemini can be quite emotionally aloof and without some strong sensuality from elsewhere in their charts, their sex life could be a little clinical, almost scientific in nature, rather than romantic. Still, it works for them. When a wild and unconventional Aquarius woman meets a fun, flirtatious, and fickle Gemini man, the only thing predictable about their relationship is the unpredictability of the results.

Aquarius Woman and Gemini Man in Bed