You've won an Aries man's heart and lost it. An Aries man is quick to fall in love and can just as quickly move on. On the other hand, if the breakup was not overly ugly he can quickly jump back in and begin again. Aries men are great at initiating a relationship but maintaining one is a different story. So, how can you push an Aries man's "I miss you and want you back" button?
Take Care of Yourself
Yes, parting really is "such sweet sorrow," but give him space and take care of yourself. Do things that you like to do, spend time with people you enjoy, or anything that improves your mood and gives you a positive vibe. If you ignore an Aries man and he sees that you're happily going on with your life, spending time with friends, dating others, smiling, being witty, and having a good time, he's likely to miss you and wonder why he ever let you go.
Look New and Different
Aries men are very visual and love to initiate relationships with someone new. You don't have to change everything about yourself to appear different or new to an Aries man. Change your hairstyle or color, be more or less dramatic with your makeup and in the way you dress, change the shade of your eyes with non-prescription contacts, lose or gain weight, but whatever you do to change your appearance make sure you always look confident, sexy, and unforgettable so he'll know what he's missing if you should happen to bump into him.
What Not to Do
Remember the point is to make him miss you and he'll never miss you if you're always around.
- Don't call, text, or tag him on social media
- If he calls, texts or tags you, ignore him
- Don't ask his friends about him
- Don't try to run into him
After Time Has Past
After a few weeks or more have passed with no contact, send him a friendly text, but keep it short, perhaps say something like "I hope all is well." You could also include a great selfie of the new you. This will make him think of you and perhaps miss you whether he wants to or not. If he doesn't respond, stop there. If he does he's probably beginning to miss you.
Signs an Aires Man Is Missing You
You've made the first contact, now it's up to him, An Aries man is quite shy in expressing his feeling, so he won't directly tell you he misses you, but there are some signs to watch for.
- He'll start texting you regularly
- If he bumps into you, he'll hang a bit longer than usual
- He'll start asking your friends questions about you
- He'll start doing whatever he can to get your attention
Everything in Its Right Time or Not
An Aries man is not shy about going after what he wants. So, if he wants you back, he'll reach out to you when he's ready. But if an Aries man decides he is done, there isn't much you can do to change his mind. Know that trying the methods above to make him miss you is a gamble that may or may not pay off. However, on a positive note, if you do the things above and they have not pushed his replay button, you've also made the necessary space for yourself and your next man.
Sun sign interpretations are fun and entertaining, but they are stereotypical and there are no stereotypical Aries men. One disadvantage of Sun signs only is that they don't account for differences between individuals, and can lead you to believe things about people that might not be true. There are many things in an individual Aries man's chart that can add to, subtract from and refine typical Aries traits.