Your Virgo lover isn't a player. He may remind you of someone testing the ice on a frozen lake; he's going to take it very slowly. He's methodical and logical. He has to make sure he's not going to fall through the ice into deadly cold waters. He doesn't like being exposed emotionally so he must be confident you're worth the effort and emotional risk.
Love's First Bloom
Don't be surprised if one of his close buddies approaches you about the possibility of a first date. Insecure Virgo needs to know he won't be turned down when he asks you out. Virgo is initially cautious of love. He will first observe his potential partner, watching for any poor indicators. However, once convinced, he'll move in fast to secure his mate. Love's newness tends to overwhelm Virgo at first. If you're the lucky person on the receiving end, be prepared to be:
- Adored, spoiled, and lavished with his attention and gifts
- Immersed in a serious relationship
Just be careful as you grab his hand to step up onto that pedestal; it can be pulled out from under you without warning.
For Long-Term Love
Once the novelty of romance wears off, Virgo's demeanor may change.
If you're his partner, you may likely begin to find him:
- Suddenly critical of things about you he previously found unique and enticing
- Difficult to live with
- An ardent perfectionist
Try not to hate him. Virgo simply can't help himself; he's a perfectionist. It's just how he's wired. So now you'll have the choice to either endure and overlook his constant critical analysis of your faults or leave him.
A Virgo male is rather introverted because he just isn't comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Being in love is the rare time you'll ever find him unable to contain his feelings and feeling a bit out of control. It won't last, so enjoy it while it does. He'll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.
A Relationship With a Virgo Man
Virgo has high ideals for himself and any possible mate. Perfection is his goal in life.
His ideal mate will:
- Feel comfortable going along with his way of doing things
- Feel comfortable sharing, as well as living up to, his standards
Virgo likes to be in control of everything, and his emotions aren't any exception.
If you're compatible, your life together will be a good one because Virgo men have a practical and direct approach to life. There won't be a lot of incredibly romantic moments, but he'll work hard to make a good home life for the two of you.
You can expect to:
- Have stability in your relationship
- Have a lovely home that's very tidy
- Always know where you stand because he'll tell you
- Not have to worry about him wasting money or mismanaging the household accounts
If you give your Virgo lover devotion and loyalty, he'll reciprocate and be a steady life companion. Let him know he's needed and watch him thrive.
Making a Commitment
Compatible signs usually hold the same ideals and want the same things in life. A Virgo man seeks a love partner who can be his life mate and work by his side. The stability of character and expression of Virgoan traits in such a man will also depend largely on any other dominant astrological signs and their placement in his natal chart. When making attempts to understand the unique makeup of your Virgo male, you will need to take into account any chart nuances and energies that can either enhance or conflict with his Virgo energies.