Debonair, charming and a bit of a scamp - that's the Libra man, at least on the surface. Still, there's something more to this man that makes him worth pursuing and trying to keep once you catch him.
Challenging Libra Male Traits
A Libra man will shamelessly flirt and cajole the object of his affection until she eventually gives in and gives him the attention he has been longing for. However, once that lovely lady gives in, she may want to keep a close eye on just how close her Libra man becomes with all the other ladies in her life; specifically her best girlfriends.
Does the Libran man deserve the reputation of being a womanizer? Well, yes, but in the nicest possible way. He truly does appreciate everything a prospective partner has to offer. From beauty to temperament to opposing viewpoints, a Libra man craves it all.
Once you take the veil off and peer at what's really there, you'll see that this man is a shameless flirt who is capable of charming the pants off of anyone under eighty!
His Best Points
Those born under the sign of Libra are not one dimensional. After all, it takes more than charm and physical attractiveness to rack up all those conquests! That's where their intelligence and well-balanced temperaments come in handy.
Libra men are a rare breed indeed. They somehow manage to be sensitive to their partners but are still seen as a "man's man." Their innate intelligence may have a lot to do with the ability to see both sides of an argument and really listen to opposing points of view.
Their balanced temperaments also make Libra males attractive. These men:
- Rarely lose their tempers or fly off the handle
- Tend to stay cool, calm, and collected
- Get over upsets quickly and easily
If You Love a Libra Man…
So, how do you handle a Libra guy? Here's a handy game plan:
Let Him Know You Have a Crush
If the Libra man in question is just a crush and doesn't realize you like him, feel free to tell him. This is one man for whom you can throw "the rules" out the window.
He'll be quite flattered by your affection and if he likes you, he'll more than likely return the affection. Even if he doesn't like you romantically, he'll probably want to be friends. Just consider whether you can handle hearing about all of his conquests without having your feelings crushed.
Let the Dating Begin
Once you've snagged your prize, all you have to do is work on keeping him interested. The plan? Keep him away from all of your pretty girlfriends, co-workers and sisters, and whatever you do, never leave him alone with any of them for any length of time.
If you are married to a Libra man, consider yourself lucky because he's likely to be faithful once he makes that commitment. You can keep him by looking your best, discussing things with him frequently, and constantly improving your mental capacity. This guy finds a wide range of topics interesting and if you speak intelligently on them, he will appreciate your knowledge and depth.
Stay on Your Toes
Womanizing may be a sport to some Libra men, but this doesn't apply to every single one. In fact, while all Libran men enjoy some form of flirting, not all are cheats. Keep your wits about you, do not get carried away by his charm and seduction, and really investigate his character. Usually you'll find out exactly what you assumed when you first met him: He's an affable guy who just happens to be very good looking and knows how to use this to his advantage, but there's a heart of gold beneath all that just waiting for you to find it.