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How to Seduce an Aries

Patricia Lantz C.Ht.
Seduction in action; Copyright Emin Ozkan at Dreamstime.com

Although the Ram is a fiery and passionate sign, it takes a little skill and experience to seduce an Aries. This is because these bold individuals like to lead. This means seducing an Aries is more about inspiring a chase. Whether you're trying to capture the attention of an Aries man or woman, these strategies will help.

Aries' Outlook on Love and Sex

Rams lead in all things, and this includes impulsively jumping into romantic relationships. Aries men and women crave affection even more than they crave passion. When their interest is high, they make incredible love partners.

The Art of Seducing Aries

Men and women of this sign are headstrong and like to lead, so it takes a different approach to seduce an Aries. Perhaps the first thing to remember is that both male and female Aries like things simple and straight forward. That doesn't mean you should jump all over an Aries. You just want them to imagine what it would be like if you did.

Get Their Blood Pumping

Look confident, sexy, and unforgettable. Be as blunt and daring as you dare. To seduce an Aries smile and flirt, make eye contact and sexual innuendos. Once you get their blood pumping, back off timidly, move on to someone else, and let them come after you. An Aries loves to compete and is not shy about going after what they want.

Offer Sincere Compliments

All Aries individuals have a need to be complimented. Compliments assure them that they're desirable. But they also need honesty. So, be sure you mean what you say. Empty flattery will be seen for precisely what it is; shallow, game playing.

Seducing the Aries Woman

If you want to attract an Aries woman, the first thing you have to understand is that she is nobody's fool. An Aries woman is incredibly confident and comfortable with herself. She likes and wants to have a partner, but she'd rather do without one than hook up with the wrong person.

Act Confidently

A quiet air of confidence is sexy to an Aries woman. She's a woman who is attracted to strong, independent, and assertive partners who want her, but don't need her and are not afraid to stand up to her. But one who also has enough confidence in her that he's also willing to let her call the shots.

Be Bold

Flirt outrageously with her and ask her for her phone number or even a date, this might make her believe you're strong and straight forward enough to take her on. If she turns you down, don't retreat completely, simply respond with a confident and challenging, cheeky grin.

Let Her Take the Lead

Once you've taken the initiative, back off and allow her to take the lead. However, you'll still have to challenge her. An "I want you but I'm not going to chase after you flirty attitude" is very seductive to an Aries woman.

Don't Chase an Aries Woman

Rather than chasing or overly praising an Aries woman, remember she's likely to be attracted to someone who takes his own achievements as seriously as she takes hers.

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Seducing the Aries Man

If you want to seduce an Aries man, the number one thing to remember is to make sure he feels he's in charge.

Pay Attention to Him

To seduce an Aries man you'll need to pay special attention to him. Be subtle, but make it clear to him that you're interested and you think he is the most desirable man in the room. Once you've established this, an Aries man will feel like it's his choice whether the two of you have a romantic encounter.

Be Feminine

An Aries man is attracted to beauty. But he's not attracted to a meek or modest type of feminine beauty. He's excited by a woman who stands out in a crowd.

Display Confidence and Competence

Aries men don't typically go for shrinking violets, so let your confidence, competence, strength, and independence shine through. He'll find it sexy if you display your sense of humor, talk about your accomplishments, express your appreciation for others, and show a keen interest in his point of view.

Antagonize Him a Bit

Don't be afraid to take an opposite viewpoint on something you're passionate about. This will fascinate and pique an Aries man's interest, incite his inner need to dominate the situation, and he won't be able to get you out of his head. Being challenged sparks Aries man's libido in amazing ways. Once his passion is ignited, it's a short trip to the bedroom.

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Mistakes That Short Circuit Your Seduction of an Aries

All Aries definitely have turn-offs that can ruin a perfectly good seduction and spoil your chances of landing the ram of your choice.

Don't Be Clingy or Needy

Your Aries will love the fact that you're romantically interested, but remember, Aries has a strong independent streak. An Aries dislike people who constantly vie for their attention, and who feel a need to paw at them all the time. If you want to avoid crowding your Aries, give some space, and keep some interests and friendships of your own. Jealous behavior will chase an Aries away.

Don't Be Critical

Aries people prefer to have their egos stroked a bit, as long as you're not insincere. Harsh criticism of their sexual prowess is a sure love buzz kill. It's an error you probably won't get the chance to make twice.

Don't Be a Sure Thing

Aries love a bit of a challenge, so don't head straight for the bedroom if your love interest invites you over. Be seductive and open but not completely obvious, or your Aries will lose interest quicker than you can say, "Jack be nimble."

Keep the Passion Alive With an Aries

Never let the object of your passions know you're entirely in his/her power. If you do, you may eventually find yourself being taken for granted. Keep just a little mystery between the two of you, as well as a bit of distance. This will keep your Aries interested and in hot pursuit.

How to Seduce an Aries