Compatibility for Aries and Aries

Patricia Lantz C.Ht.
Contributor: Tania Dworjan
Aries paired with Aries

Have you been trying to figure out the compatibility for Aries with Aries? The initial heat between two Aries can be intense. However, it will take work on the part of both to keep the heat going. When it comes to an Aries and Aries relationship, there are a lot of things going for it and there are a lot of things going against it.

A Little Bit About Aries

Aries is the first sign of the zodiac and begins at the time of the Vernal Equinox. Symbolized by the Ram, Aries is the Cardinal (initiating) fire (passionate) sign of the zodiac. It's ruled by Mars, the warrior planet of energy, action and sexual desire. It's also the first of the four personal signs (Aries, Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer.) These signs that are concerned with achieving personal satisfaction.

Aries in Love and Relationships

An Aries can impulsively leap into a relationship on the basis of romantic and sexual attraction only. They are energized by sexual desire, know who they want, take the initiative and go after what they want. They are excited by the pursuit, and any rejection and evasion will only add fuel to the fire. However, an Aries tends to enjoy the chase more than the catch and often loses interest in a person when they've caught them or once the excitement of new love wears off.

The Compatibility for Aries and Aries

The compatibility for Aries and Aries is, initially, a great match. Like looking into a mirror, each sees the fire, passion, warmth, ambition, and raw sexual energy in the other, and this draws them together. However, they're both independent loners, who have hot tempers, tend to be self-centered and to do what they want to do, when they want to do it, and won't be told what to do by anyone. An Aries and Aries relationship will never be boring, but as you can imagine much of what comes naturally to both of them can create problems in their relationship.

Male and Female Aries

Other than anatomy and physiology, there's very little difference between a male Aries and female Aries. An Aries woman may have a softer touch, but she's still brash and straightforward; more sexy than feminine. And just like an Aries man she's free-spirited, fiercely independent, lives on the edge, lacks patience, is ready to fight at the drop of a hat and won't be possessed.

Aries and Aries Make Great Lovers

When dating they will be warm and physically demonstrative with one another and their dates will always be different, fun, and exciting. What one doesn't think of, the other will. An Aries is also sexually voracious and love can be a battlefield when two Aries hook up.

Fighting as Foreplay

As lovers, they'll butt heads, argue and fight, but fighting is foreplay for hot make-up sex when an Aries and Aries hook-up. As quickly as they lose their temper with one another, all will be forgotten when they jump into bed. Sex is the battleground that will test their relationship. Make no mistake, getting a hot love affair started is no problem for two Aries. The issue is how to make the relationship progress beyond the initial sexual and romantic attraction.

Aries and Aries: a Firey Marriage

While a love affair can be hot, passionate, intense, with loads fighting and makeup sex, when two such independent, hot-headed, and self-centered people walk down the aisle and move in together, all bets are off. Aries and Aries are alike in many ways, however, some ways they're alike work in their favor, others don't.

What works:

  • Both have the same sexual like and dislikes
  • Both have a sense of humor
  • Both find an active life relaxing
  • Both are optimists
  • Both have a short attention span
  • Both are independent and don't mind being alone

What causes problems:

  • Both are self-centered
  • Both are spendthrifts
  • Both are hot-headed and competitive.

Conflict and Competition

Agressive Aries couple arguing

Conflict will be an issue in a long term relationship unless two Aries can learn to pull together instead of competing with one another. A little competition in a relationship can be fun, but if taken too far it can lead to one-upmanship, hurt feelings, bruised egos, and verbal, even physical, aggression. For a long term relationship to work, each will have to keep their competitive warrior energy in check, learn to compromise and balance their need to act independently with some thought and consideration of their mate. This way, neither will feel left out, controlled, or held back.

Aries and Aries Friends: Friendly Competition

When two Aries form a friendship, there's mutual admiration, fun, excitement and friendly competition. They may butt heads occasionally, but both are quick to get over it. They may also vie to outdo one another in sports, academics, income, status, etc, but their friendly competition can motivate each to excel.

Best Aspect of Aries and Aries Relationship

Boredom can be the kiss of death for an Aries, so, the best aspect of an Aries/Aries relationship is that their spontaneity, even their fights, will always keep things new and exciting, and they'll never be bored with one another. However, the ability of both to move quickly on after a fight is likely to be the saving grace of an Aries/Aries relationship.

Sun Sign Compatibility

Relationship Astrology is complex and technical, plus there really are no perfect astrological partners. Who you fall in love with and why is a great mystery, and astrological compatibility has little to do with falling in love. The Sun is important when looking for compatibility; it is the core of your being and its light shines on everything else, but any interpretation of the Sun signs only, while fun and entertaining, is only very general and certainly incomplete. You'll have to go beyond the Sun if you really want to know if two Aries individuals are truly compatible.

Compatibility for Aries and Aries