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Hi Swtlady,

I think it's great that you know how you feel- that's a great starting point. Okay, just be honest. Tell him, "hey, listen, things are going great; you're super cool. Would you like to meet and see how things go? No matter how things go, no harm, no foul- at least we already know that we're friends and on the same wave length. How do you feel about that?"

Tell him that and see how he responds. Please let me know how it works out!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

Hi Jacqueline I know theres quite a lot but strangely enough we agree on everything. I really would like to have a chance with him, eventhough he may see that Im too young (but he enjoys our daily chats). In fact I just stopped talking to him right now and he said see u tomorrow (in a way that he is looking forward to it). He is in a continuous search for his soul-mate but as we discussed today he cannot find no one since all the women of his age are either married, taken, separated or not interested in relationships (And he wants even to have kids), in fact a friend of his told him to lower the age of the women he is looking at. I like how the things are right now but I feel that I HAVE to tell him how I really feel about him. Today i was going to tell him about how i feel but got blocked at the last minute and since it was late I didnt want to keep him up. Can you please maybe advise how can I start a discussion on this topic? Im really stuck!!!

-- Contributed by: swtlady

Hi Swtlady,

No problem- we're happy to help if we can! Anyway, that is quite an age difference. 15 years is not too bad if you were, say, 30, but at 22 it may be a bit much. Do you want to be romantic with him (is that what you are looking for?)- if so, maybe you should just ask him if he's looking for a more substantial relationship. If that's what you are looking for, it may be best to know upfront what he wants. This way, you don't have to waste time. On the other hand, if you like the way things are right now, there's no need to step it up to the next level. How do you feel about it?

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

sorry i forgot to put ***approximately 2 months ago through a single's website

-- Contributed by: swtlady

Hi Jacqueline,

Thanks for your reply. We just chat a lot daily through texting and online chatting and really got to know him quite a lot. What did u mean by are u seeing him in a romantic sense? No we are not dating just kind of more than friends. Got to know him approximately months ago through a single's website. He was the first one that messaged me. From my side it doesn't bother me that much but I feel that he is keeping a step back since there is almost 15yrs difference in age. I'm 22 and if u do the math u can get to his age (hehe).

I need to know where I am with him, so I feel that I have to ask him what he really wants but I find it really difficult and don't know what to actually ask him!!!

It's ok...thx a lot for your time in replying and helping :)

-- Contributed by: swtlady

Hi Swtlady,

Are you seeing him in a romantic sense? Are the two of you dating, or just friends? How long have you known him for?

Why does the age difference bother you? Are you 18 or older? I'm sorry for asking so many questions, but please feel free to write back and we'll try to help!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

sometime ago I met a Libra guy which is the most charming guy i ever met...the thing that troubles me most is the age difference (more then 10yrs)... i am really attracted to him even though he is older. We chat for long hours and never get bored...we laugh continuously!!! But sometimes he says vague things..that can mean that he is into u...but im not quite sure...and this is really killing me!!! what should I do????Can anyone help plsss?? P.S. i never told him directly that i'm really into him but gave him certain clues and comments (hopefully he might have noticed) Thx alot :)

-- Contributed by: swtlady

Hi Ray,

First, congratulations! We're so happy that you met someone!

Okay, don't change too much about yourself (the brashness, the boldness, etc) - it's going to be one of the reasons why she'll fall for you, and since the two of you are opposite signs, it's a big draw.

If things go well, and you become more serious, you can try to be a little more even handed.

Finally, if/when you go out, don't forget your manners- she'll hate that. Good luck and keep us posted!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

I just met the most gorgeous Libra.. Im an alpha Aries.. but i am very self aware of my brashness and temper.. and that has helped me out alot.. any suggestions Libra ladies to woo her and just be very sensitive to her elegantness and feelings?

-- Contributed by: Ray

Hi Meagan,

Well, Aries and Libra are opposite signs, so there's usually plenty of attraction, but as with all opposite signs, there's sure to be some conflict too. Just try to keep that in mind, stay calm together, and work through it, and it should be fine. Thank you for the post and good lcuk!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

this is good , me and my bf tyler r together and well hes a libra and im an aries , i hope this works

-- Contributed by: megan

Hi Carmen,

I'm so happy that this article accurately described you and your boyfriend- that's fantastic! We wish you the best of luck and thanks for contributing here with us!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

Hi RALK,

Well, I think that's a very healthy point of view to take about the whole thing, even though I'm sorry that it didn't work out well for the two of you. While it may not have been very good to try to make him jealous, he certainly had no right to put you down. At least you learned a valuable lesson from this experience. Thank you for sharing with us here!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

I dated a aries who was a cheaterbut did not want me to cheat on him. I love to make him jealous. He was mean to me and alway try to put me down in front of people. i think he hated me. Big Liarsssssssssss. We did not make it but I do not hold any hate towards him. I actualoly wish him good luck in life and I hope he find himself.

-- Contributed by: RALK

This is so true. My boyfriend is a Libra, and I am an Aries. And we are exactly like this.

-- Contributed by: Carmen

Hi Berverly,

Please see some of the free links in our Free Love Tarot Reading article. This way you can ask your question there, and throw the cards. Thanks very much!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

Hi Jo,

I know when two opposite signs like Aries and Libra get together, there can be explosive fireworks! Try not to get to addicted to the passion! Thanks for taking the time to share with us here!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

will I find happiness with Jonathan King

-- Contributed by: Beverley

wow I was married to an aries once and now am living with another. bull headed they are. being a libra i find that we mesh i cant help but love him and be frustrated with him. i wouldnt trade it for anything.

-- Contributed by: jo

Hi Mark,

Thanks for sharing your experience with us here- we appreciate it!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

I knew in our first meeting that she lit my fire. Man she is hot and I feel(ha a feeling Aries)the heavy gravitation pull to her. She is cerebral, sexy, and the best kisser I can recall. This is a fabulous match in my opinion. Aries beware, this one is a keeper!

-- Contributed by: mark

Hi Omar,

That's actually pretty interesting because Aries and Libra tend to be super attracted to one another. Hmm...I wonder if it's something in your chart? Perhaps you have a moon or rising sign that incompatible with Libra, or that doesn't allow for romance? No matter, thank you for contributing here- we appreciate it!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

it has never worked for I am Aries and I never had an affair with a libra and it seem to never manifest dont matter how strong is the attraction.

-- Contributed by: omar

Hi Boooboo,

Thank you so much for the kind words! We strive to present a balanced view and to accurately depict what a relationship looks like between these two signs, so thank you for acknowledging that! We really believe that any two signs can work it out- thanks again for the comment!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

I love how this article comes up with ideas to make it work vs. saying that it's doomed to fail like those other articles. 5 stars!

-- Contributed by: Boooboo

Hi Kikki,

That would be great! Try out the tips and then write back and let know if they worked. Thanks for contributing here!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

Thank-you this is so true I'm a Libra girl and my boyfriend always argue i will be trying out these tips!

-- Contributed by: Kikki

Hi Sarah,

We're so glad that you enjoyed this article and that you were able to get something out of it! We really hope that this article continues to help you that your relationship goes great! Thanks again!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

Hi Shaheen,

Thank you for sharing your story with us here! We wish you the best of luck with your relationship!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

I got more positives than negitives out of this. It seems pretty balanced from how I look at it. Because I'm a Libran at 20 yrs old,I'm more likely to see the other person's point of view. If I wasn't,then Jesse McCartney if likely at all,would be burning my roof down!

The fact I'm a Libra,helps me find out how I can make ends meet.If he said"Can you give me a couple minutes by myself? I'm very frustrated by something." I'd say "sure" If you feel like talking about it later,we will discuss it." Hopefully then he'd say okay.

Because if you only fall in love to pesture,that can be counted just as bad as being in an abusive realtionship!

That's how I look at it, -Sarah-

-- Contributed by: Sarah Lynn

im a libran. my aries bf is a sweetheart..but yes, his brashness takes a toll on our relation. im myself impulsive, unlike a libran, but mk sure my actions n words don't hurt ppl. long live our relation, AMEN!

-- Contributed by: Shaheen

Hi Teresa,

It sounds as if everything is going great. The key for you is to try not to be too dogmatic and pushy (there is a difference between being aggressive and being assertive, but it sounds like you are doing a good job so far of walking that line). Continue to allow him to express his different points of view- as long as he feels appreciated and listened to, then things should go well. Thanks for contributing here and we wish you much success!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

I love reading about how I'm feeling! This describes us to a T! Me, the Aries woman and he, the Libra man! He is so sweet while I'm super straight forward. Everything we do is soo passionate! I wanted to know a little more about what to expect and how to make it last forever, it's the greatest feeling! Thanks!

-- Contributed by: Teresa

Hi Valerie,

Yes, it's true that Aries men are very powerful and go after what they want. We wish you the best of luck and hope that this relationship continues to be as fulfilling as it is right now! Thank you for sharing with us!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

Hi Alexandra,

We're so happy that your relationship is going well and we wish you the best of luck that it keeps going that well!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

personally this discribes me and my boyfriend he is so stright fdorward when i ask him sertent thiing with out tryiing to at least try and sound nice but thoght it all i relly care bout him and i would do anything to keep him happy

-- Contributed by: alexandra

My Librian air met the fire of an Aries man. What a powerful combination. Everything that we do is with intensity. Our laughter, hugs, kisses,dinners, conversations, even the way we dress! This has been one of the most fulling relationships I've had in my life! In every area, I've weighed his strengths and weaknesses and found him to be the most true person to himself. When the Aries man is committed... he's fixed! He protects what he loves the most.

-- Contributed by: Valerie

Hi Meemee,

We're so glad you enjoyed this article. It's ture that the attraction between Libra and Aries can get pretty intense. Two other articles may help as well. Try:

Thanks for sharing and good luck with your relationship!

-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj

this is absolutely true me i am a fiery fierce aries when my man is a sensitive sexy libra. we have so much fun together. its like ying and yang we complete each other. but when we disagree its hectic. i had to learn to stop being so stubborn and to be more considerate of his emotions. we arent exactly perfect but we make it work. we are meant for each other!

-- Contributed by: meemee

this is soooo crazy, its absolutely right! I myself am a libra and my sweetheart is an aries. every single thing described here applies to me and my boyfriend. we do have several small arguments from time to time but in the end we forgive each other and it balances out. Im always sure to communicate my feelings with him to let him know if im hurt. and hes always there to tell mi if im doing something that isnt exactly ok. in the end its worked out. He still gives me the sence of allot of protection yet has managed to treat me very gentleman and sweet like and I in return treat him the same or if not better. But yes, I do agree that both horoscopes can absolutely work out!!!

-- Contributed by: ruby
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