Scorpio Woman and Pisces Man

Patricia Lantz C.Ht.
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The Scorpio/Pisces combination can share a passion and romantic closeness that's truly rare. However, when troubles arise, they have entirely different ways of coping that can end the relationship as quickly as it began. Still, a relationship between a Scorpio woman and a Pisces man will last a lifetime, in that it will forever be etched in their hearts.

The Scorpio Woman

There's a quiet, reserved, and mysterious quality about a Scorpio woman men find irrespirable. She's deeply introspective and private, and at times moody and sulky or even cold. A Scorpio woman is secretive, doesn't give much away, and needs time alone. Silence is a strong part of her nature. However, she's like a quiet, placid pond, glassy and empty on the surface but with life teeming in its belly. No other woman can keep her emotions so under wraps or have more profound and enduring feelings.

The Pisces Man

There's no man sweeter or more caring than a Pisces man. He's shy, quiet, sensitive, goes with the flow of life, is incredibly easy going, loves to cater to others, yet because of his sensitive nature, he needs time alone. There's an ephemeral, now you see him now you don't, quality to a Pisces man that can make him a bit of an elusive mystery. He is easily influenced by the people that surround him, and he can be elated one minute and devastated the next depending on what's happening around him. While his ability to withdraw from reality into his private dream world makes him creative and romantic, it also makes his temperament a little hard to understand.

A Watery Relationship

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Scorpio is a fixed water sign. Pisces is a mutable water sign. Both are emotionally sensitive by nature but deal with their emotions in very different ways. The Scorpio woman contains her powerful and intense emotions; the Pisces man is like a surfer who skims along on the surface adapting to emotional waves and attracted to anyone or anything that stirs his emotions. A Scorpio woman can certainly stir a Pisces man's emotions and she, in turn, is fascinated and enchanted by the elusive, mysterious quality of a Pisces man.

Both are highly intuitive and even without words know what the other is thinking and feeling. Both value their privacy, tend to be spiritual, and at times both are also emotionally needy.

The Good

The Scorpio woman is passionate and aggressive. The Pisces man is charming, generous and romantic. She needs an emotionally fulfilling relationship with a man who will never try to control her, and he needs an emotionally fulfilling relationship with a strong and independent, yet sensitive woman.

When the relationship is working well:

  • The Pisces man can soften a Scorpio woman's harsher more stubborn nature, while she brings emotional stability to his life.
  • The Scorpio woman's strength and protectiveness can offset a Pisces man's vulnerable and selfless nature, while his gentle, soft-hearted nature can get her to open up when she's feeling hurt or annoyed.
  • The Scorpio woman can give a Pisces man self-confidence and in turn, he can give her faith and trust, as well as an awareness that her suspicious nature will only bring her sadness.
  • The Scorpio woman can provide a steadfast foundation for the relationship to revolve around and in turn, the Pisces man offers gentleness, kindness, and sympathy.

Simply the Best

The most fabulous part of a Scorpio/Pisces relationship is the erotic dance that happens in the bedroom. They are romantic, passionate, emotional, sensual, and creative lovers, whose aim is to please one another. There's role-play, mystery, fantasy, pain, pleasure, and a merging into one another that makes their lovemaking magical.

The Scorpio woman is fixed water, and it's her nature to be controlling. The Pisces man, mutable water, is not easily controlled. However, when it comes to making love with a Scorpio woman, she can be as controlling as she desires and the Pisces man will gladly submit.

Regardless of how dark, kinky, or forbidden their lovemaking gets, he'll skillfully navigate all the deep, intense emotional waves she stirs up. Their ability to lose themselves in each other makes their time together in bed simply the best part of this relationship.

Tumultuous Highs and Lows

When a Scorpio woman and a Pisces man fall in love, their relationship will be intense, intimate, and magical. They will feel their lives are filled with more depth, meaning, excitement, and wonder. Of course, this doesn't mean there's perfect harmony in the relationship or that it will last forever. In truth, this tumultuous relationship can end, perhaps over and over again, as quickly and as passionately as it began.

Both Scorpio and Pisces are subject to extreme highs and lows. As a couple, they are either blissfully, passionately, intoxicatingly in love or engaged in all out, spiteful and painful warfare. Both would rather feel emotional pain than no emotions at all. So, if a Scorpio/Pisces love affair becomes too calm, either or both may be tempted to start a fight just to liven up the relationship. Fights between these two can be as intense, passionate, and spectacular as their sex life.

Major Scorpio/Pisces Differences

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A Scorpio is marked by the vehemence and the extremity of their emotions, a Pisces man by his acute sensitivity to the moods and emotions of others. When the going gets tough, she becomes suspicious, jealous, possessive, and controlling while a Pisces man becomes elusive, plays hide and seek, and is even harder that normal pin down. When her jealousy and possessiveness are aroused, he feels suffocated. The tighter she holds on, the more slippery he becomes.

A man is either all in or all out as far as a Scorpio woman is concerned, while any kind of stress gets a Pisces man down, too much and he'll simply slip out the door.

When a heated emotional argument arises:

  • A Scorpio woman stands her ground.
  • A Pisces man is evasive.
  • A Scorpio woman is confrontational.
  • A Pisces man avoids confrontation if at all possible.
  • A Scorpio woman gets cold and manipulative.
  • A Pisces man gets cunning and plays the victim.

A Scorpio woman will give her all to love but after a fight, she can be cold and vindictive to the point of wanting nothing to do with her lover. Meanwhile, a Pisces man withdraws into himself, becomes aloof, sulks, and makes himself scarce. It's sad to say, but eventually there could come a time when she washes her hand of him forever, or he just slips out the door for good.

Making the Relationship Work

To make a Scorpio/Pisces relationship work, both partners must come to understand and talk about their part in the ongoing melodrama.

They must learn to:

  • Trust one another
  • Communicate openly and honestly with each other
  • Understand why each reacts as they do
  • Spend time apart

It's the trust between these two upon which the success of a Scorpio/Pisces relationship depends. So, it's important for both to remember that the underpinning of the trust in their relationship is open and honest dialogue. Each must also come to understand they can get lost in the relationship if they don't spend some time apart pursuing their individual passions.

Fight Nice

It's almost inevitable there will be fights in an intensely passionate Scorpio/Pisces relationship. When anger rises, it doesn't matter how much of the above these two have learned, it's all-too-easy to revert to bad habits. Learning how they each can fight nice is one of the most important ways for this couple to preserve their relationship.

Fight nice rules for the Scorpio woman:

  • Take a "time out" before she does or says something she'll regret.
  • Acknowledge she's angry and calmly communicate the issue honestly and openly.
  • Don't hit below the belt or become violent.
  • Care about his position as much as you care about yours.
  • Forgive and remember, with grace comes power when you're dealing with a Pisces man.

For the Pisces man:

  • Don't play the blame game.
  • Don't walk away.
  • Care about her position as much as you do yours.
  • Use touch to comfort her, let her know you love her, and help her calm down.
  • Forgive and make her feel safe, connected, and loved by you.

Sun Sign Compatibility

The Sun signs can tell you a lot about the dynamics of a relationship. However, many things in each of the partner's individual horoscopes as well as in their relationship synastry can mitigate, exacerbate, and even alleviate the difficulties of a Scorpio/Pisces coupling. If this is a serious relationship, and the couple just can't seem to make it work, it's best to see a professional astrologer.

Love, Passion, and Melodrama

Scorpio and Pisces share the kind of love that's found in books and films; romantic, passionate, melodramatic, and turbulent, but not always with a happy ending. However, as tumultuous as the relationship between a Scorpio woman and a Pisces man may be, how long it lasts or how dramatic the ending, theirs will be a love story to remember.

Scorpio Woman and Pisces Man