Can Gemini and Leo Be Soulmates?

Patricia Lantz C.Ht.
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Gemini and Leo are naturally attracted to one another. They have similar values and interests and share a mutual appreciation for one another. Both are theatrical individuals who want attention and need an audience. At the very least, theirs will be a dramatic, playful, and fun relationship based on mutual appreciation and good times, but when love enters the picture, there will be more.

What Is a Soulmate?

American writer Richard Bach says, "A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks...we can be completely and honestly who we are." Certainly, when dramatic and charismatic of Leo meets witty and intelligent Gemini theatrics abound, but do they have keys that fit each other's locks?

Leo and Gemini

Leo and Gemini fascinate, encourage, and inspire one another. Both appreciate and encourage the other's individuality. They feel comfortable with one another, like one another, understand one another, motivate one another, and feed off each other.

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    Leo needs a partner who adores them; Gemini excels at flattery. The more Gemini flatters and pays attention to Leo, the brighter Leo shines.
  • Gemini needs a partner with a sense of humor; Leo laughs easily and the more she laughs, the more he'll perform.
  • They're both entertaining, and each is the other's appreciative audience.
  • Leo is enchanted by Gemini's intelligence and wit and matches it with their own.
  • Gemini is enchanted by Leo's flair for the dramatic and is not hesitant to join in.
  • The spoken words, praise, and friendly banter are important to both
  • They are on the same intellectual level, which makes their conversations interesting and soul satisfying.
  • Leo's warm, open hearted spontaneously excites and opens the heart of cool, fickle, intellectual Gemini.
  • Gemini is calmed and steadied by Leo's stabilizing influence.
  • Gemini's inner child is always on display. Leo's loves to play.
  • Leo is the star; Gemini is the scriptwriter, producer, and director of the show
  • Both are action-oriented and driven and motivate one another.

Playmates

Gemini and Leo's inner children are always ready to play, and each has a super-sized appetite for life. Gemini provides the energy, ideas, and excitement, Leo brings drama and passion, and they're both theatrical. Each has a wide array of interests and are equally ready to try anything once. As playmates, they just get each other, so there will be no shortage of good times and fun when these two friends get together.

Laymates

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Being playmates and friends is easy for Leo and Gemini. Being laymates is a little more challenging. Sure, when Leo's fire meets Gemini's air, the flames burn brighter and passion flares, but keeping the sexual spark alive after the honeymoon stage is over could be a little challenging.

Still, Gemini and Leo both love teasing each other. Gemini talks dirty and loves role play. Leo is dramatic, enjoys the production, and is hardly demure. Both are into seduction; however, each often enjoys the promise of sex as much as the act itself. Theirs is not the most sensual coupling in the bedroom, but the lively conversations, hilarious jokes, and playful spontaneity they share just might be enough to keep them both happily satisfied.

The challenge is that both can get bored with routine, no matter how risqué the routine might be. This means they will have to use their theatrical skills and creative imaginations to script a variety of dramatic and playful scenarios that will spark them out of their playmate mode.

Soulmates

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Considering the Sun sign only, Gemini and Leo can easily flow from playmates to laymates to soulmates without forsaking an ounce of fun. They accept and enhance each other; they are better when together, and both encourage the other to be completely and honestly who they are.

Gemini and Leo represent the bonding of mind and heart and thinking with willpower. If both recognize each holds the key that turns the other's lock, theirs just could be a wonderful soulmate love story.

Challenges

Like everyone else, Gemini and Leo both have negative qualities that can present challenges in their relationships with others, among them are:

Leo

  • Can be arrogant, self-centered and possessive
  • Focus only on what they want
  • Can be confrontational, stubborn, and easily annoyed

Gemini

  • Can be inconsistent, nervous, and impatient
  • When angered, their temper can flare, and harsh words can fly
  • Can be distracted and quickly move onto something or someone new

Both

  • Can be a bit selfish
  • Have fits of rants and rage

The Gemini/Leo traits listed above can often present challenges in relationships with other Sun signs, and may also haunt a Gemini/Leo relationship at times. When in love, Gemini and Leo are not likely to behave in such harsh ways with each other very often. There is a mutual understanding and emotional aspect to the relationship itself that gives both the urge to be more gentle with and forgiving of one another. The Gemini/Leo relationship is meant to be more compassionate, sweet, and comforting than you might expect.

The Composite Sun in Cancer

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Astrologers will tell you that every couple is a threesome; there are the two separate individuals, and then there's what they are together. Yes, there's an astrological chart for the relationship itself that can help you understand the workings of any relationship. It's called a midpoint composite chart.

The composite chart reveals the strengths, weaknesses, purposes, and challenges of a relationship. It answers questions such as: What does the relationship want? What does the relationship fear? What makes the relationship feel happy?

This chart is the averaging of a couple's two natal charts. In other words; the mid-point between a one person's Sun and the other person's Sun is the Composite Sun. The Sun in the composite describes the heart of the relationship, the focus of the bond and what makes the relationship tick.

The astrological signs of Gemini and Leo are in a sextile relationship. They are only one sign apart. The sign that separates them - is in the middle - is Cancer. Cancer is an emotional water sign, and the traditional sign of home, marriage, and family.

Homemates

Even Gemini/Leo friends feel at "home" together. As paradoxical as it might seem considering Gemini is notoriously noncommittal and Leo is anything but a homebody, when love comes to a Gemini/Leo relationship, so do words like devotion, commitment, loyalty, forever and always, marriage, home, and family.

Gemini will still be Gemini, and Leo will still be Leo, but their relationship adds a new dimension to both of their lives. While their life together will still be fun and exciting, they will also feel lots of comfort with one another. Their love will make each more tender, nurturing, and caring for the other.

Gemini and Leo hold the key to each other's heart. They are better individuals when they are together, and the relationship bodes well for the commitment, loyalty, and tenderness that is usually expected in a soulmate relationship.

Soulmate Relationships

Considering their Sun signs alone, a Gemini and a Leo can easily be soulmates. However, how easy, difficult, or long lasting the relationship might be can only be determined by the synastry between their two natal charts and the full composite chart. It would also be wise to remember a soulmate relationship is not always heaven on earth. Most often, they are complicated relationships that challenge both individuals to change and grow. The relationship formed when Gemini and Leo fall in love is one that will challenge them both to become more tender, compassionate, and caring to others.

Can Gemini and Leo Be Soulmates?