How to pretend break ups don't hurt?
How do you pretend you are not hurt by a break up?
When will I meet the right partner?
Advice (1)
Hi Dragon,
I can only discern your sun sign from the information you have provided. I need your city of birth in order to draw up your natal chart.
As a Virgo sun individual, one of the better ways to pretend your breakup doesn't hurt, is to keep physically busy. Now, you will only be pretending, because breakups certainly do hurt. However, if you're trying to convince an ex that you have moved on successfully with your life, immersing yourself heavily in projects, work activities, or any activities that keep introspection at bay are best for an earth sign.
Breakups are not usually described as productive events, but you can channel your negative energy into many productive efforts. In fact, with enough constructive distractions, you may actually be able to pull yourself out of an emotional rut and, indeed, stop caring about past relationships.
I am born on 31 august 1964 at 6pm
Hi Dragon,
Your birth city--I need to know where you were born. This makes a world of difference in determining which astral signs were present at your time of birth.
Thanks,
Ann
Hi yes silly me. I am born in Singapore
Hi its Singapore, hope to hear from you soon. thank you.
Hi Dragon,
Your Venus is in Cancer and your moon is in Gemini. These two planets are very important regarding your outlook on relationships and your ability to emotionally heal after trauma.
With a Venus in Cancer you will have an impediment when it comes to recovering from a breakup. Cancers are heavily nostalgic, they can become completely lost in the past, and this means you may relive certain aspects of your relationship for years to come. Partnerships are so important to you that you will not fully recover until you are in another relationship.
Your moon in Gemini is a bit more helpful. You are going to need to talk about this breakup... a lot. Find a loyal confidant who can aid you through this time. Continuous self-expression may help to resolve negative emotions.
Beyond that, you must distract yourself and keep as busy as possible.
-Ann
I forgot to mention date of birth 31st August 1964 born at 6pm