What Attracts the Virgo Man

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Want to know what attracts the Virgo man to his romantic mate? Read on.

Romance and The Virgo Male

Whether a man's sun sign is Virgo or just his moon and/or Venus falls in Virgo, he'll likely approach romance in a typically Virgo manner.

Overall, a Virgo man tends to keep his romantic thoughts under cover until he's very sure of what he's feeling. This man isn't likely to blurt out his interest in someone or make overt gestures. Instead, he'll just quietly turn up in the same vicinity as the object of his affection, eventually making his interest known in some small, but unmistakable way.

As you may already surmise, clubbing a Virgo man over the head and dragging him back to your cave is not an option. To catch his interest, you're going to have to be a bit more subtle and sensitive, otherwise you run the risk of turning him off.

So, What Attracts the Virgo Man?

Here are a few pointers that should help you draw your Virgo's attention.

Personal Appearance

Most Virgo men are fastidious about their appearance. You can usually spot them by their freshly ironed clothes, shined shoes and signature ties. Even if your Virgo guy is dressed casually, he'll still look very coordinated and stylish.

As much as Virgo expects of himself, he expects no less in a mate. Sloppy, baggy clothing is almost certainly a turn off to this man. No matter what you wear, be sure your clothing is clean, in good repair and matches. The clothes may not make the person, but first impressions and every impression afterward are extremely important if you want to spark this man's romantic fires.

Your hairstyle is also important. Virgo men can be very particular about their own hair, and unlike many less observant males, they'll always notice your hairdo and probably comment on it as well. You want to make sure those inevitable comments are favorable, so be sure that your hair is clean and well kept, whatever your style.

Scent is also important. The Virgo male typically appreciates a clean, light fragrance to an overpowering cologne. Remember, Virgos are rather subtle people, so don't overdue it.

Personality

In addition to being well-groomed, the Virgo man is a bit of a perfectionist. He expects a lot from the people around him, and his love interest will endure even more scrutiny.

One thing you can be sure of, you won't create a good impression with this man by telling a bawdy joke and laughing heartily at your own punch line. First and foremost, you need to show yourself as a person of good taste and manners. Virgo appreciates a partner that knows how to behave appropriately, especially in public. This doesn't mean you have to be a stick in the mud, so don't be afraid to show a sense of humor and your fun-loving side, just keep it in line with the company you're keeping.

Virgo men are also attracted to people who are dependable. These men may project an outward sense of confidence, but underneath that exterior they are looking for a partner who makes them feel secure. Do offer the occasional compliment when it's warranted, but avoid insincere flattery.

The Virgo man has an excellent radar that detects falsehoods of any variety. Also avoid delivering criticisms whenever possible, and if you absolutely must point out a shortcoming or mistake, do it with great care. This man is a very sensitive soul, even if he can deliver some stinging criticisms himself. Just try to keep in mind that he doesn't always realize how he comes off; he really thinks he's telling you the truth for your own good.

Making the First Move

You'll have to pay close attention for those initial signs that your Virgo man is interested in you. Typically he'll position himself relatively close at social functions, or perhaps ask you to pair up with him on a project for work. He may even suggest a lunch or dinner date to discuss a topic the two of you have in common.

Basically, he'll set up a situation where he can spend more time getting to know you under the guise of something else. This leaves him some wiggle room in case he decides you're not the one or if you wind up rejecting him.

That said, some Virgo men appreciate it when the other person makes the first move. This leaves them a little freer to keep sorting out their own emotions without feeling obligated for starting something they may not choose to finish. If your Virgo accepts your invitation, be sure to choose a restaurant that offers elegant dining and a dignified ambiance.

Remember the importance of those first impressions. Also be sure to ask your Virgo what he'd like to do after dinner. Perhaps he'll suggest a movie or a walk in the park. Whatever he comes up with, he'll appreciate the thought that you wanted to consult him about his own wants. Remember, he's also a sensitive fellow.

Whatever you do, don't try to rustle this man to bed on the first date. Never forget that he values appropriate behavior. When, and more importantly if he's ready to take the relationship to the next level, he'll definitely let you know. As reticent as the Virgo male can be about committing to a relationship, he isn't afraid of intimacy once he's sure he wants it. That's why Virgos make such wonderful lovers.

In a Nutshell

So there you have a few key tips for what attracts the Virgo man. Present yourself attractively, behave approachably yet appropriately and always show concern for his thoughts and feelings. If you truly have anything in common, chances are your Virgo will find you drifting through his thoughts more frequently, and this may just lead to romance. However, keep one thing in mind. You shouldn't have to change your own personality to try to attract someone else. It's more important to be natural and sincere. If you're ment to be with this man, it won't take a lot of special or articificial effort on your part. Good luck!

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