Pisces Men and Commitment

From LoveToKnow Horoscopes

Discussing Pisces men and commitment is a complicated issue that requires exploring a series of romantic layers.

The Pisces Male Romantic Personality

Delving into the subject of Pisces men and commitment means understanding the depth of the Pisces personality, and "depth" really is the operative word. Almost no other astrological sign can really grasp the very deep feelings Pisces can have for another human being.

That’s because it’s not only a love connection, but also a spiritual one. Pisces men want a soul mate, they want one for life and they will swim to distant shores to find that person. Even time or having to wait for someone will not dissuade them from this search. It’s their "reason to be". This emotional connection, and the search for this emotional connection, is the undercurrent of their lives.

The Link Between Pisces Men and Commitment

With so much feeling driving their lives, one may wonder if Pisces men cheat. The answer is yes, like any other sign, they do. This begs the question of why? While there are psychological underpinnings to anyone who cheats, from a purely astrological view, unfaithfulness is usually caused by a break in the emotional and/or spiritual connection. The best way to keep infidelity at bay is to understand what Pisces men are attracted to in the first place. A few of these factors include the following.

A Sense of Fate: Don’t underestimate how strong Pisceans respond to the question of fate. If they believe that the two of you are "meant" to be together, nothing will shake their conviction.

Spirituality: Pisces can find "spirit" in many different forms. From looking into an animal’s eyes, to a piece of music, to art, all of it moves Pisces to a higher spiritual level. Does your relationship do the same? Is your Pisces allowed to grow, or is he mired in day to day struggles? If his soul cannot "be", he may stray.

Travel with Him: Pisces do much better when they have someone who can accompany them on their travels. Left to their own devices, Pisceans can get into all sorts of trouble! Circumvent this by simply going with them. Whether to the local pub, or Home Depot, Pisces has the best of times when his mate is with him. If he’s alone, he’ll start to ruminate, find himself feeling down, and then of course, search for a way to relive his sadness. This can easily lead him into the arms of another.

Compatible Signs for Pisces

The truth of the matter is that any sign can get along with a Pisces; they are that lovable. However, having a moon, Venus or Mars placement in a water sign will be a huge help. The water signs are Cancer, Scorpio and fellow Pisceans. Both Cancer and Scorpio swim in murky waters so they can more easily understand the emotional nature of the Pisces personality.

Factors that Drive Pisces Away

Some factors will drive Pisces away faster than others. These factors include:

Ridicule: Ridiculing Pisces for his compassionate nature towards people, animals and causes will first send him into a depression. Once that’s over, he’ll quickly search for other like-minded people.

Taking Advantage: Pisces men tend to be fairly gentle, but love partners that mistake kindness for weakness will, in the long run, lose these men.

Cruelty: Compassionate Pisces loathes cruelty in all its forms, so if you have a vindictive streak, it’s best to hide it.

Stormy Seas

Neptune is Pisces’ ruler, and according to mythology, the ruler of the seas. At times, the seas are placid, calm and tranquil, but at other times, they churn with violence. An angry Pisces can be just as destructive. Once angered, Pisces can wreak havoc, and cut a path of destruction much like any other storm.

It takes a lot to push Pisces to this level of anger; he usually just lets it sit and swirl within, but over time, the pressure builds and eventually has to be let out. Treat a Pisces man with the respect and kindness he deserves, and you’ll never have to see this side. Additionally, keep in mind that Pisces usually takes his pain out on himself rather than others.

Putting It All Together

The topic of Pisces men and commitment means delving in the Pisces personality and swimming from one end of the spectrum to the other. Yes, he may cheat, but he doesn’t have to. Traits like kindness, compassion, understanding, humor and fun will go a very long way with Pisces. If he sees these traits in you, he’ll know there’s no reason to stray.

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