Loving and Seducing a Virgo Man
From LoveToKnow Horoscopes
Loving and seducing a Virgo man is no easy challenge, but few things in life are worth having unless you need to work a little to get them. Learn how to sustain love with this man as well as how to reach his libido.
Mission: Loving and Seducing a Virgo Man
The Virgo man is one of the more difficult creatures of the universe to understand. On the outside, he may seem a little detached, and sometimes he even comes off as emotionally unavailable. It's a different story on the inside, although few people are granted entrance.
It's true that Virgo men are generally reluctant to lay their cards on the table when it comes to their emotions, and they have incredibly high standards for themselves and their mates. However, if you can pierce the protective force field this fellow surrounds himself with, you'll find a staunch partner who will always offer you his best. Here is some advice that will help you do just that.
Nurturing Love
To love a Virgo man, you need to make a strong effort to understand him, and this isn't always easy to do. Virgos are perfectionists at heart, and they tend to offer unsolicited advice.
Simply put, they can be honest to a fault and rather blunt in their delivery. What you need to understand is that even though they often lack a filter for their comments, they really only mean to help you improve whatever issue they're talking about. If you are very self-confident and can interpret criticisms in this spirit, regardless of the words used to deliver them, you have a good chance of building a loving relationship with your Virgo.
It's also paramount to understand just how much this man needs your love and your reinforcement of his value to you. Virgo seems self-sufficient on the surface, but underneath is an emotional core that cries out to be loved unconditionally. It takes a generous heart to accept and overlook this man's faults, see through his defense system and love him for exactly who he is. If you can do that, you'll earn his love and his loyalty. This is a guy who will go to the mat for you once he commits.
Successful Seduction
If you've succeeded in creating a strong, loving connection with your Virgo, it's only a short journey to seduction.
Set the Scene
If the house, especially the bedroom, is a mess, your Virgo man won't be able to focus on anything else. The first step in setting the scene for a seduction is to make sure the house is in order. A lack of chaos and clutter will induce your man into a more relaxed and receptive mood.
Scent is also very important. The Virgo man appreciates the smell of cleaning products, but not when it's time for love. Light scented candles or fragrance oil burners in strategic areas, and lower the lights a bit to create a romantic ambiance. Scents that are conducive to romance and passion include rose, ylang ylang, sandalwood, and patchouli. Lavender is also great for relaxation. Whichever scent you choose, keep it understated.
Put fresh sheets on the bed, the softer the better. You want to create a haven for luxurious abandon. Add a few extra pillows, and turn down the bedding invitingly. Playing a little romantic piano music in the background won't hurt either, but keep the volume low so it's not distracting. You have to be careful about going over the top.
Prepare Yourself
As important as it is to prepare your surroundings, it's even more important to spend time preparing yourself. Treat yourself to a lavender bath, and be sure your skin is smooth and as hair-free as possible. Brush and gargle so your breath is sweet. Your hair should be soft and clean, and only slightly tousled to create a "come hither" impression. Choose clothes with a sensuous texture, but avoid anything too racy or revealing.
Take Your Time
Most importantly, don't rush your seduction. A Virgo male needs time to get ready; not just physically ready, but mentally ready as well. He needs to make a mental/emotional connection with you before he can contemplate a physical union. This is extremely important to unlocking this man's passions. However, once those passions are let loose, a Virgo lover is second to none.
Take Care of His Needs
The typical Virgo guy is always taking care of the people he's close to, so it's important to make sure you're taking care of his wants and feelings too. When the moment comes, don't be afraid to let him know how irresistible you find him. Believe it or not, his ego really needs to know it. Show him he's the only man in the world for you, and he'll reward your efforts richly.
And there you have some very helpful tips about loving and seducing a Virgo man. Romance always has its ups and downs, but this is one relationship that definitely gives back what you put into it.
Learn More
Comments
Hi Tom...,
I know, it's tough when you want more and the other person is a bit more distant- and that's the key here- Virgos can be distant with their emotion, however, that doesn't mean that they don't care.
How is he with you? Is he helpful? Does he ask you what you think about things? Virgos tend to do that when they care. I think that you should tell him that you'd like to see him more, but say it in a breezy, non-threatening kind of way.
For example, is there something the two of you can work on (like a project)? It can be any kind of project- work related, building a table- anything. Just something that takes a while to put together. Tell him that you're working on (a model boat, etc) and ask him if he'd like to help because you value his insight and judgments.
If he likes you that ought to work- please write us back and let us know what happens- we're pulling for you!
-- Contributed by: Jacqueline DautajI am a mid-November Scorpio who has been seeing a late-August Virgo for almost a month. I know it is too soon to tell, but I really like him. I am captivated by his intellect, manners and ambition. When I see him, he is very affectionate, however, sometimes, he goes days without calling me. Then when he calls I am scred to call him back, because I do not want to appear eager. I don't know if I should be honest with him and tell him that I need more daily connecting or just to leave him alone because it will scare him away or turn him off that I am desirous of his time. I want him to pursue me. I am making myself sick by turning my intensity inward. I need to know where I stand so I can be patinet or move on graciously. Please help!
-- Contributed by: Torn ScorpioHi Needhelp...,
Do you have his birth date? If yes, please write back with his and yours and we'll take a look at the charts. If possible, please provide the time, the date, place of birth and year.
-- Contributed by: Jacqueline Dautaj
This page has been accessed 16,449 times. This page was last modified 18:23, 14 March 2009.
© 2006-2009 LoveToKnow Corp.
Print this page
Follow ltk on twitter
Visit us on facebook
