How to Seduce an Aries

The Basic Aries Outlook on Love

Rams lead in all things, and this includes jumping into love relationships rather impulsively. People of this sign crave affection even more than they crave passion, although they do make wonderful love partners while interest is high.

Aries have a need to receive compliments and be assured they are desirable, but they also need to be sure you mean it. Empty flattery will be seen for exactly what it is, so shallow attempts at seduction will likely be rebuffed.

Mission: How to Seduce an Aries

While men and women of this sign are both headstrong and like to lead, it takes quite a different approach to seduce the sex of your choice.

Wooing the Aries Woman

If you want to seduce an Aries woman, the first thing you have to understand is that she is nobody's fool. Ram women are incredibly confident and comfortable with themselves as a rule. The Aries woman likes to have a partner, but she would rather do without one than hook up with the wrong mate.

Since the female ram is such a strong personality, you can be a bit bold in your efforts at seduction. In fact, much more so than you can with an Aries man as we'll discuss shortly.

• Act confident: You need to convince the Aries woman you are interested and worthy of her attention without looking like you're trying too hard. A quiet air of confidence is sexy; bragging about yourself is not, so don't stray over that line.
• Make a bold move: If your initial efforts have met with interest, yet your Aries woman is still being a bit coy, it's time to make a bold move. A great kiss, virtually stolen from her lips, just might make her believe you're strong enough to take her on. If she slaps you, don't retreat completely. Respond with a confident cheeky grin, and she may just let down her guard for you.
• Offer her adventure: The Aries woman is more likely to be found rock climbing than doing needlepoint, so ask her to come along for a bike ride or to go boating.
• Show your sense of humor: Your Ram appreciates humor as long as it's not at her expense or overdone. If you're not handy with the jokes yourself, take her to a comedy club to share some laughs.

Wowing the Aries Man

How to seduce an Aries man: make sure he feels he's in charge. The male Ram not only wants to be the initiator, he has to be in order to remain in the mood. Unlike the Aries woman, a man has to be approached at a bit of a side angle. You need to be clear that you are interested in him, and, of course, that you think he is the most desirable man in the room at all times. Once you've established this, your Aries man will feel like it's his choice whether the two of you have a romantic encounter in your future. This is essential if you're going to succeed in your mission of seduction.

More seduction tips:

• Look good: You may not be the most attractive person in the room, but you've got to make the most of what you've got. Be clean, smell good, dress well and take care of your hair and face. These qualities will attract the Ram's initial interest.
• Display some self-esteem: Aries don't typically go for shrinking violets, so let your confidence shine through.
• Antagonize him a bit: Don't pick a full-out fight about something silly, but do take an opposite viewpoint on something you're passionate about. This will peak your Aries' interest and incite his inner need to dominate the situation. He also won't be able to get you out of his head. Being challenged sparks Aries' libido in amazing ways.

How to Short Circuit Your Seduction

All Aries definitely have turn offs that can ruin a perfectly good seduction and spoil your chances of landing the Ram of your choice.

Among Aries' pet relationship peeves:

• Acting clingy: Your Aries will love the fact that you're romantically interested, but remember this sign has a strong independent streak. Aries dislike people who constantly vie for their attention, and who feel a need to paw at them all the time. If you want to avoid crowding your Aries, give some space and keep some interests and friendships of your own. Jealous behavior will chase your Ram right out of the field.
• Leveling criticism: Aries prefer to have their egos stroked a bit, as long as you're not insincere. Harsh criticism of their looks or love technique is a sure love buzz kill. It's an error you probably won't get the chance to make twice.
• Being too easy: Aries love a bit of a challenge, so don't head straight for the bedroom if your love interest invites you over. Be seductive and open, but not completely obvious or your Aries will lose interest quicker than you can say "Jack be nimble".

Final Love Advice

If you want to not only seduce your Aries, but hang on and create a relationship, here's the best tip we can offer. Never let the object of your passions know you're completely in his/her power. If you do, you may eventually find yourself being taken for granted. Keep just a little mystery between you and a little distance. This will keep your Aries interested and in pursuit. Predictability and boredom are your biggest enemies when planning how to seduce an Aries. Don't let it happen.