Dark Side of an Aquarius

From LoveToKnow Horoscopes

An Aquarius is generally thought to be the happiest sign in the zodiac but there is also a dark side of an Aquarius. Their upbeat and creative nature can quickly become unpredictable and indecisive. If you are looking to understand all sides of an Aquarius, here are some tips.

The Dark Side of an Aquarius

Some of the most common qualities of the dark side of an Aquarius are:

Extreme unconventionality
Stubborn
Egotistical
Detached
Reclusive
Closed-off
Temperamental
Bitter
Brash

Extreme Unconventionality

Aquarians are often thought of as being unique because they do not always adhere to social norms. It’s part of what makes the zodiac sign seen as humanitarians. However, this desire to look at things outside the box can come at a price. An Aquarius does not look at extreme unconventionality as a bad thing. What the rest of society deems as a borderline, the dark side of an Aquarius views as silly. They sometimes cannot see the proverbial line in the sand. They also will choose not to follow the rules or any type of protocol, often at the risks of others. This predisposition to extremes often will lead Aquarians to extreme viewpoints and decisions. As a result, it can sometimes be hard to have a conversation with an Aquarius about important issues because he or she will see your viewpoint as ‘safe.’

Stubborn

Aquarians are logical and quick to make decisions. However, they will also stick to those decisions for as long as possible. When an Aquarius has made up his or her mind, the Aquarian will not be changing it anytime soon. The sign is known for holding grudges over the smallest of disagreements. If you are foolish enough to rub an Aquarius the wrong way, they will always remember. In fact, years after a grudge began, an Aquarius will still feel as much passion as he or she did the day it started. The passionate nature of the sign can also be a good quality because he is more than willing to stand up for the things he believes. However, an Aquarius will often continue fighting even when there is no chance for success.

Egotistical

Of all the signs in the zodiac, Aquarians have perhaps the biggest ego of all. Their interest in intellectual pursuits and their unique viewpoints on life makes Aquarians think that they are the most special people on Earth. Coupled with their creativity, Aquarians can sometimes think that they are God’s gift to the universe.

Detached, Closed Off and Reclusive

Driven by intellect and not by their hearts, Aquarians often do not express emotion or feeling in the same way that others think they should. They also tend to withhold their emotions. Much like Capricorns, Aquarians do not want to get hurt and would rather take the time to get to know people before opening up to them.

Friends of Aquarians will often complain that they do not know what is going on inside their Aquarian friend’s head. If an Aquarius has decided to not let a person into his life, that person will never be a part of that Aquarian's life. They also are more likely to keep their feelings inside when they do become friends with people.

However, Aquarians will often take this to an extreme and become reclusive. Extreme Aquarians will think the idea of being a loner is a great one. Not worrying how other people perceive them or want them to act are appealing ideas to the Aquarius.

Bitter, Brash and Temperamental

Aquarians are often known for holding on to bad feelings. As they become resentful for having those bad feeling, they will often resent anyone who causes the bad feelings. Aquarians are quick to become bitter when things do not turn out their way.

They are also prone to being brash and speaking out of turn. Much like Aquarians do not like being constrained by rules, they do not like having to constrain their words. Their extroverted nature also causes them to say whatever they feel when they feel like saying it. Their timing is often off, to say the least.

Aquarians will also often change their mood. One minute they will be happy, the next they will seem upset. One minute they will be joking, the next minute offended. It can sometimes be difficult to keep up with the ever-changing temperament of an Aquarius.

When Aquarius Goes Bad...

Here is a quick chart to show how positive Aquarius traits can turn bad:

The Good	The Bad
Unconventional	Extremist
Logical	Will not act
Easy-going	Temperamental
Easy to please	Easy to upset
Upbeat	Annoying
Intellectual	Closed-Off
Decisive	Stubborn

Final Thoughts

Aquarians--like all signs--have their good and their bad sides. Be sure to look at each Aquarius as a person and not as a sign however. Otherwise, you may miss his individuality!

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