Attract Virgo Men

From LoveToKnow Horoscopes

Wondering how to attract Virgo men? We know that these sexy and elusive men can, at times, display some baffling romantic behavior. Read on for your must-have battle plan to catch these handsome men!

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The Plan

Wondering how to attract Virgo men can leave one in knots! Virgo men are known for their good looks and winning smiles, but just when you think you have one of them snared, poof, he vanishes. Why is that, and perhaps most importantly, what can you do about it? Here’s the plan.

How to Attract Virgo Men Today

The first thing one should keep in mind about Virgo men is that they can be shy. That’s not to say that all: Virgo men are shy, but because their symbol the Virgin tends to be modest, there’s a good chance that they may be too.

So, what can you do about this? While some signs like to take the romantic lead, like Leo, other signs, like Cancer, don’t necessarily mind if someone else makes an overture. It’s perfectly acceptable to show interest in a Virgo man, just try to do so discreetly, since you don’t want to embarrass him.

Neat and Orderly

Speaking of discretion, Virgo men love things to be neat and orderly, and this applies particularly to their homes. Leaving dishes in the sink and tossing newspapers onto the coffee table might be perfectly acceptable for Gemini, but Virgos crave order.

This gives them a sense of control in what is, in their eyes, a seemingly random universe. Virgo males, therefore, would prefer a mate that is as tidy and as fastidious as they are. If your Virgo sees that you like to keep everything in its place, he’ll be that much more interested in perusing a romantic relationship.

Nix Over-the-Top Emotions

Virgo men tend to be very logical; they simply don’t understand decisions based in emotions. This is not to say that they don’t occasionally listen to those "gut" feelings, but these intuitive emotions don't usually run their lives. Keep in mind that Virgo's intuitive nature shouldn’t be confused with his spiritual nature. In fact, Virgos can be quite spiritual, but usually it’s only because it "makes sense".

The point is that overly dramatic scenes where you hiss "I’m walking home" as you slam the car door typically don’t play well with Virgo. Aries will shout and follow you (the first time); Sagittarius will laugh and walk with you, but Virgo? There’s a good chance that Virgo will let you walk home. In other words, when you fight with Virgo, simply suggest that the two of you sit down and "reason" things out; that will get him in the right frame of mind to feel more conciliatory.

Employ Humor

Virgo men love people that have a witty, dry sense of humor, so don’t be afraid to show yours. They may be a bit shy at first to show theirs, but the odds are very good that they’ll appreciate your funny bone. Once they become more comfortable, they’ll show more and more of their wry sense of humor.

Don’t Criticize

By this we mean, don’t criticize the Virgo man in question! In fact, it’s fine to criticize anything else in the universe, but do not turn that critical eye on him. If you absolutely have to, do it with a a lot of tact. Some of these traits go back to him being rather shy and sensitive, so his feelings can be hurt fairly easily.

Along with this, once hurt, a Virgo tends to withdrawn, not engage. He’s very adept at creating distance, so if your phone stops ringing, you’ll know why. This of course, puts you in something of a conundrum. Do you just accept everything he says as gospel? No, of course not. Just practice letting him have his way, and try not to change him.

Health

Virgos tend to be almost fanatical about their health. Ever wonder who’s on those calorie-restriction diets? That’s right, Virgo. Even if yours is not as concerned about calories as all that, know that he is not the type to run out and try some exotic food. Instead, he’ll be at the gym working off that extra slice of pizza or popping a vitamin supplement to counteract that extra glass of wine at dinner. Attract this man by being equally, if not more, health conscious.

Putting It All Together

Finally, Virgo men do like pets, but they usually prefer small ones that need a minimal amount of grooming and, preferably, are relatively odor-free. This is not a man that enjoys playing in the mud.

In short, follow some of the guidelines mentioned above and you should be attract Virgo men in no time. However, if these traits don’t conform to your natural personality, consider looking elsewhere; no one can keep up and act forever. On the other hand, if you naturally display the traits above, and you happen to be in love with a Virgo, this can be a fantastic romantic connection!

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