Aries as a Boyfriend

The Aries Personality

A natural born leader, Aries approaches life's challenges with the idea that he will win and master any situation which confronts him. He is direct and does not mince words when giving his viewpoint, whether he was asked for it or not. His personality is dynamic and magnetic; people listen to him and often heed his advice.

Aries are warm hearted and kind with a love of laughter. The Aries man is quick-witted and always ready with a one-liner that will make people laugh with him. The other side to this coin is that he tends to have a quick temper as well, and unfortunately, this can often lead to him saying hurtful things.

The Aries personality is usually quite impulsive. This quality keeps relationships with an Aries man fun and exciting. It can also be a little frightening if his tendency towards excess takes spontaneity too far and his behavior becomes dangerous.

Overall, this sun sign is a sheer delight to share time with. Rams are doggedly committed to the things they care about, enthusiastic about life, and polite towards others. Aries are easy to know because they are forthright and bold.

Seducing the Aries Man

Before you can have an Aries as a boyfriend, you must first pique his interest. The Aries heart will soon follow once you have captured his imagination and shown him that you share his joy of living. Aries likes an adventurous and passionate mate.

Aries is spontaneous, and enjoys a partner that is the same. Don't be shy about stealing a kiss, or proposing a weekend getaway to go kayaking. He will love the attention and your sense of adventure!

If you would like to make a good first impression, you may wish to consider some of the following activities for a first date with an Aries:

• Rock climbing
• Boating
• Mountain biking
• Skydiving
• The grand opening of a hot new nightclub

A spirited debate is a favored activity among Aries; challenge his opinion with an intelligent argument. Stand your ground without trying to flatten his substantial ego, and watch his admiration for you grow. Don't forget to compliment him, and let him know how sexy he is!

Keeping Aries as a Boyfriend

Once you have gotten the Ram's attention, you will want to keep it. This may be a little challenging at times, but chances are that you like a challenge if you are drawn to an Aries man.

Keeping the Balance

Keep in mind that the ram likes admiration, but is fiercely independent. He would rather hear applause for his accomplishments than have you fawning all over him and catering to his needs. He does love it when you give him a massage or other thoughtful act, but he does not wish for you to reorganize his kitchen!

Aries can be very demanding of his partners; if he becomes overbearing it is better to stand up for yourself than to suffer in silence. He will respect you for being forthright, as there is a good chance he did not recognize that he was being too pushy. Aries are not inconsiderate of loved ones on purpose; they often forget the feelings of others in their zeal to accomplish their own goals. Honesty is the best policy with an Aries man, he will become annoyed with a partner that is resentful or passive aggressive.

Romantic Surprises

Surprise your Aries boyfriend with romantic gestures such as a well planned out evening of romance complete with candlelight, good food, and lots of shameless flirting. A card or letter telling him how important he is to you will also be well received by this man. Kiss him passionately when he least expects it, and then challenge him to give you an even steamier kiss.

A little admiration, some thoughtful gestures and spontaneous surprises, mixed with a little patience and strength on your part will help you keep your Aries as a boyfriend for a long time to come!